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Babies.

Wednesday, December 2nd, 2009

I’ve heard it said that 2 signs of a healthy & growing church are physical babies and spiritual babies; births and new births. That being said, I’m proud to announce that over the past year, we’ve baptized 6 brand-new, first-time believers (not ‘re-dedications’, either, real baptisms [sorry to the number-fakers]), and seen our first newborn baby, Jordan Baker (of which I am the proud Godfather).

This next year, who knows what God is going to do spiritually in people’s hearts, but we already are seeing His work in ladies’ wombs: my wife is pregnant with our first (yay!) and our close friends, Brad and Hope, are expecting as well (our due dates are a week apart – that’s a tight Home Group)!

Our worship director (Pablo) texted me over Thanksgiving and asked what was up with the simultaneous and sudden pregnancies. I sent him back this verse:

And God blessed them. And God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”

Genesis 1:28

and told him we were just obeying Scripture.

The Extent of Restoration: When A Pastor Falls

Friday, October 2nd, 2009

I tweeted this morning about pastors who have disqualified themselves, saying that they should not enter back into the eldership for the duration of their time on earth. It’s absurd and disgusting to me how pastors who have disqualified themselves from the pastorate are already looking forward to the next time they are in leadership. Here are some reasons (Scriptural, logical, and personal) why I think this should be the norm. I will also address my perceived objections to my thinking. Feel free to comment. I’m sure you will anyway.

1 Timothy 3:1-7

The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s church?He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil. Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil.

These are, in short, the Biblical qualifications for an overseer/elder/pastor (interchangeable terms). There are others as well, including Titus 1, but for our purposes, these work. The main reasons why a pastor is a pastor is not because he is a great teacher, a great shepherd, an incredible preacher, or an awesome leader. The main reason why a pastor becomes a pastor is because he is a great follower of Christ.

As an example, let me examine my own life. Now, do I, as pastor of Harmony Church, fit all of the above qualifications at all times in my life? Bluntly and plainly, no. Ask my wife how often I’m quarrelsome, gentle, or sober-minded. But then ask her how much I, since becoming a Christ-follower, have grown in all of the areas. My life is visibly and radically conforming to the life of Jesus over time. This is sanctification, which is a sure sign of salvation. In addition to this, Christ has gifted me by His Spirit in leadership & teaching in order to lead others to do the same. In short, those two qualifications (visible conformity to the life of Christ and leadership/teaching abilities), are what qualifies a pastor. If either is lacking in a man, whether it’s leadership/teaching ability or visible conformity to the life of Christ, then that man is not to be a pastor.

In the case of the fallen pastor, there’s a major “dip” in the trajectory of his life with regards to the qualifications listed in Scripture. This major dip (whether it’s an affair, stealing money, etc.) calls into question at least 2 qualifications: the qualification broken and the “above reproach” qualification. Depending on the sin, there may be other qualifications severely hampered as well (outsider reputation, etc.) The reputation of the person with regards to others is huge in any ministerial role (see Acts 6:3 for deacons being men of “good repute”). Once a pastor has been a pastor, and has publicly sinned to the point of disqualification from the pastoral role, his reputation is blemished for the rest of his life. That blemish on the reputation, in my interpretation of Scripture’s high view of ministry leaders, is enough to disqualify him from leadership for the rest of his life.

Now for the objections:

What about Matthew 18:15-20? Shouldn’t he be restored?

A pastor who has fallen should absolutely be restored, if possible, to right relationship with Christ and His Church, in accordance with Matthew 18 (and other texts [Galatians 6, eg]).  This passage of Scripture does not refer to leadership within the Church. Leadership in the church is privilege/honor even after one accepts Christ. Fellowship with the church is a right because one has accepted Christ. This section of Scripture is the basis of church discipline for restoring individuals (regardless of role) back into relationship with the Church community. It does not refer to leadership roles. Don’t take it (or any other ‘restoration’ verses) out of context.

What about all sins being equal? Derek, if you struggle with pride or stumble with being gentle, doesn’t that disqualify you the same way that an affair does?

Well, I certainly hope not. When we talk about sins being equal, we talk about in respect to their rebellion with regards to God’s character. All sins offend Him equally. But not all sins have equal consequences. For instance, premarital sex resulting in a child has a larger consequence than lying to your mother. They are both sins with respect to God, but one has a lifelong consequence whereas the other is easily forgiven and forgotten. Sins that publicly and blatantly break the qualifications to be an elder have more severe consequences than “stumbling” sins do. And rightfully so. But I definitely affirm that they are equally as revolting to the character of God.

What about St. Pete? Didn’t he sin against Christ and then was restored to leadership?

Sort of. I honestly don’t think Peter was a Christian when he denied Christ 3 times. After all, the Cross and Resurrection hadn’t even happened yet. And Peter definitely still had questions about the identity of Christ with regards to redemptive history. In addition to all that, would you really be willing to say that Peter was the leader/pastor of the disciples when he denied Christ…considering Christ was walking on earth? If so, what do you think about the “digs” at Peter by John in his Gospel? But that’s another topic…heh.

Any other questions/comments I will address below.

Why We’re Moving to Tipsy

Thursday, September 24th, 2009

Not sure if you’ve heard yet, but the church I lead, Harmony Church, will be moving to Tipsy Teapot in 3 weeks (October 18th will be our first service there). If you unaware of what Tipsy Teapot is, it’s a the cultural center for the Uptown Greenville commercial district. Tipsy is a teahouse/coffeehouse/used bookstore all rolled into one. Plus they have over 4000 square feet devoted to culture: arts, literature, music, film. They regularly hold film showings, discussion events (like our own God & Guinness), and concerts (recently absorbing the Greenville underground Spazzatorium shows). And starting October 18th, we will be having church gatherings there on Sunday mornings at 10am, just before they begin serving brunch.

And although moving to Tipsy is an amazing prospect, it sadly means that we have to leave Unk’s, our beloved home for over a year now. And we have an awesome situation at Unk’s: we meet there for free, use their equipment, enjoy the staff, and it’s central to the campus neighborhood. So why are we moving? Here are some reasons:

  • Removing a Stumbling Block: Even though we are not concerned with the ‘bar-taurant’ atmosphere of Unk’s, some people are. Some people looking for Jesus are. And that’s an issue. We want to remove any obstacles that could be hindering religious people, families, underage searchers, and anyone else from hearing the Gospel about Jesus. Sadly, this means leaving Unk’s for a more ‘general’ and politically correct meeting place (though Tipsy serves alcoholic beverages as well, the atmosphere is not bar-ish).
  • More Space: On one hand, we in essence have more space. We will eventually be using one half of Tipsy (it’s divided by double doors) for our gathering, and the other half for children’s ministry. We’re not sure of the details yet, but we do know that the children will spend a large portion of time with the adults in gathering. The space that Tipsy provides will be beneficial in teaching kids the Gospel on a level that they can understand, in the midst of a community that they both love and are loved by. This is vitally important to the inter-generational vision of Harmony.
  • Less Space: The seating capacity for Unk’s is one of the largest for a restaurant in the city (295). On Sunday mornings, one can feel really distant from others, simply because of the cavernous open room of Unk’s. Tipsy is setup narrow and long (think storefront) instead of Unk’s wide and shallow (think full music venue).  This does two things: it draws the church closer together at least physically, and fills the room with more energy, which will hopefully bring a constant energetic ‘vibe’ at Harmony.
  • Location, Location, Location: Tipsy, as I said earlier, is grand central for Uptown culture. There is no other music venue like it. All the others are bars that happen to host bands. The creatives of Greenville gather regularly at Tipsy. They work there. There are people from different backgrounds/religions/lifestyle calling Tipsy their ‘third place’. So we’re going to incarnate there and hopefully tell them the Gospel. It is the “Union Station” for Uptown Greenville. And we’re calling it home base for the missio dei.
  • We Have to Grow Up a Bit: The thing about meeting somewhere for free is this: you can get spoiled very quickly. It’s like living with your parents for the first 17 years of your life. It’s time for Harmony to get an apartment. We’re not buying a house. Or moving to a loft in Manhattan. We’re just getting to know what the real world is like, so to speak. We’re becoming a responsible church. Which is healthy, and will bring us together as a community, with one mission and one focus: using our resources in order to further the Gospel.

These are just a few of the very, very many reasons that we’re moving. Would you commit to pray with us about this endeavor? I’ve challenged the church that whenever the Spirit leads you to pray more, to in that instant pray for the move to Tipsy. Would you do the same? Also, do you want to give your time/resources to the move and ‘relaunch’ of Harmony? E-mail me at derek-at-harmonydc.com or give online at HarmonyGreenville.com