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	<title>Comments on: Jon and Kate Plus One? &#8211; A Letter to Jon and Kate.</title>
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		<title>By: Dave Peele</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dave Peele</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 15:15:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amen!  I have watched this show for awhile with my wife and never really paid attention to this fact.  I just thought that Kate was overbearing and a little mean.  But after reading this, I have realized that you are dead on in your post.  This happens far too often in marriages in this nation and it needs attention.

I feel sorry for them as a husband and a parent.  Not just for the kids, but for them as well.  There is a love that has been overlooked because of the pressures of what their life has placed on them.  I wish so much that they could read this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen!  I have watched this show for awhile with my wife and never really paid attention to this fact.  I just thought that Kate was overbearing and a little mean.  But after reading this, I have realized that you are dead on in your post.  This happens far too often in marriages in this nation and it needs attention.</p>
<p>I feel sorry for them as a husband and a parent.  Not just for the kids, but for them as well.  There is a love that has been overlooked because of the pressures of what their life has placed on them.  I wish so much that they could read this.</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kevin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 16:25:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great letter man, keep Jesus first always</description>
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		<title>By: April Baer</title>
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		<dc:creator>April Baer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 13:11:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Derek - 

Long time, no see :)  Doug and I think of the church fondly and often - hope all are well! 

I feel similarly.  Jon and Kate continued to share how their kids are #1.  Though I admire that they take their parental duties seriously, I think that they have allowed their marriage to become towards the bottom of their &quot;list&quot; - 1.) kids, 2.) tv show, 3.) book deals, signings, and other media junkets to make money, 4.) maintaining an image....

I think that this dissolved marriage also shows the power of money and greed.  They did the show to provide for their kids.  I am sure that their children were much happier in their middle-class home where they had loving parents than this multi-million dollar compound with apathetic parents.  

I can empathize with wanting to provide for your family, but nothing should replace the love that should be the top priority - love for God, love for the marriage, and love for the family - in that order.

Kids who have parents that are in love are happier than kids who have parents that place them as paramount in their lives.  I think it&#039;s unhealthy.

Best, April</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Derek &#8211; </p>
<p>Long time, no see <img src='http://desertfather.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Doug and I think of the church fondly and often &#8211; hope all are well! </p>
<p>I feel similarly.  Jon and Kate continued to share how their kids are #1.  Though I admire that they take their parental duties seriously, I think that they have allowed their marriage to become towards the bottom of their &#8220;list&#8221; &#8211; 1.) kids, 2.) tv show, 3.) book deals, signings, and other media junkets to make money, 4.) maintaining an image&#8230;.</p>
<p>I think that this dissolved marriage also shows the power of money and greed.  They did the show to provide for their kids.  I am sure that their children were much happier in their middle-class home where they had loving parents than this multi-million dollar compound with apathetic parents.  </p>
<p>I can empathize with wanting to provide for your family, but nothing should replace the love that should be the top priority &#8211; love for God, love for the marriage, and love for the family &#8211; in that order.</p>
<p>Kids who have parents that are in love are happier than kids who have parents that place them as paramount in their lives.  I think it&#8217;s unhealthy.</p>
<p>Best, April</p>
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		<title>By: lindsey</title>
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		<dc:creator>lindsey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 02:57:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome Derek! I really hope at least one of them read this! Especially Jon, I just feel he is so lost &amp; taking the easy road Home.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome Derek! I really hope at least one of them read this! Especially Jon, I just feel he is so lost &#038; taking the easy road Home.</p>
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		<title>By: Brad Christian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brad Christian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 02:43:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post sir! I have been thinking the same thing for about 6 months now. The whole &quot;I&#039;m doing this for the kids&quot; mentality is killing America! Thanks for the post...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post sir! I have been thinking the same thing for about 6 months now. The whole &#8220;I&#8217;m doing this for the kids&#8221; mentality is killing America! Thanks for the post&#8230;</p>
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